Monday, February 6, 2017

Loving Yourself

All too often do we find ourselves comparing one another. This is a major issue. I can be pretty, but I can't be prettier than anyone else. Why? Each and every one of us are different. Not one of us are anything alike on the outside. Sure, we all have skin, hair, eyes. But no one has the same birthmark right below their right eye, like I do. You cannot compare something that isn't the remotely the same. 
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     We should all believe that each one of us are beautiful or handsome. No one is too big or too skinny. There's nothing to compare them to in a way to decide if they are too big or not. Downgrading someone about their appearance is pathetic, and just goes too show how ugly you think YOU are. Not anyone else, but you. 

Wednesday, January 25, 2017


Quite often, I find myself being sucked into the giant whirlpool of drama. Drama is like a never ending cycle. Even when you think you've gotten away from it, someone is going to pull you down again. I, personally, am not one to back down no matter the situation. But, I am also not the one to normally start drama.  My problem is: if someone starts something involving me or mine, I do NOT let it slide. I am so grateful to have a mother like I have, because she disciplines me when I am involved in drama so I will learn, instead of encouraging me in drama so I won't. That is what the best thing to do is when involved in drama. No, it is not good to respond to it. The people trying to involve you are most likely bored or jealous. Jealousy is most likely the factor. Some people just aren't content with their own lives, and must try to ruin others'. By responding to drama, you drop to the lowest level you can, their's. I am guilty, and will probably never change when it comes to retaliating, but I am learning to be even better than I already am when it comes to things like drama. Competition is the main factor of drama. Many times, I find myself aggravated, because I feel as if people try to compete with me. The best way to deal with competition is to realize: they can't compete with you, because they aren't even qualified enough to race. Don't let the jealousy of others' affect the happiest parts of you life. 

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Friday, January 6, 2017

LGBTQ Controversy

Everyone has a different opinion on the LGBTQ community, but the ones with a negative opinion need to rethink it. No one on this great Earth is perfect or a saint by any means. So, why is it okay for someone to judge another for whom they care about? It's not. I don't really have a view, because it doesn't affect me. Nor does it affect anyone with a negative opinion. Why get angry and downgrade people about their life choices when it doesn't affect you at all? It is absolutely crazy how people judge others so quickly without checking their self first. In one of my recent posts, I stated that this generation will be the change to end the destructive cycle of negativity when it comes to other's differences. That also applies to the LGBTQ community. Everyone has rights to make their own decisions. We shouldn't judge anyone for having a different sexuality than us.

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Friday, December 9, 2016

10 Steps to Become the Generation of Change

Becoming the Change:

  • Give people of different cliques a compliment.
  • Try to be more open-minded about others' differences.
  • Attempt to start a conversation with someone new.
  • Do a random act of kindness for anyone.  
  • Be patient with others, for they may not be as open-minded as you.  
  • Love everyone as equally as possible, despite any differences.
  • Don't be afraid to discuss issues, as long as you do so respectfully. 
  • Let go of all hatred, and build bridges. 
  • Act like a best friend to anyone; be a shoulder to cry on; an expert with advice; etc.
  • Make everything above a habit. 

Friday, December 2, 2016

A Generation of Change

There is too much controversy in the world today, but our generation will be the ones to either change the world or destroy it. It is so scary to hear so many malicious comments and views about other people. The way we act towards others and handle ourselves is going to be the determination of our victorious change or our disastrous downfall. We as people should be grasping each other by the hands and helping one another continue in this journey of life. We should be joining forces to battle against the close minded people, and trying to help them to open their minds to a new beginning. We as the future of the people should be working together to be the change this world must have to live fully in peace. Whether someone is black, white, Latino, Indian, gay, straight, transgender, etc. we are all the same; and we all bleed red. The controversy between us needs to stop, so we can help our older generations become more open-minded about differences. We need to be prepared to help the generations after us to adapt and learn the ways of equality. Try something different. Give someone who isn't from your usual crowd a compliment. Do something nice for someone. Start the change that is necessary. 

Wednesday, November 30, 2016


Dear Viewers, 
             I just wanted to welcome everyone to my blog. This is a safe place where any hateful or ugly comments will be deleted and further actions may be taken. With all of the problems in the world today, some need addressing and others need to be ignored. I hope this page will do just that. My goal for this blog is to help anyone and everyone, along with myself, with self improvement. Have a great day everyone. 

Xoxo, Alyssa

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